"I" is Important

I am very important to me. well, I made this statement to make you know that YOU are important to you as well. You are born here to live as you. You are not born as someone else. If you are not treating yourself well, then who will treat you well? Who will know your worth? May be you can count on your fingers who love you and who really know your worth. Even though they know your worth, they will not know every inch of your thoughts.So, take good care of what you want to be and your beliefs. Your mind, body and soul are very fragile. They are forever like a just born baby. You need to carry them with utmost care. But this doesn't mean you should live just being you. That's again living in isolation which doesn't add any color to your life. Neither you are born to please someone and mix up your charm with of theirs, which doesn't look charming to you and mess up what is in you and what you deserve to be happy and pious. A person always wants you to live as per their expectation and there is nothing wrong in it. Because they have the rights to expect. But you are not responsible for what they expect. If that doesn't make your soul feel good then don't do it. You are human enough to know what is right and what is not. Make yourself realize that you are living this life for a very short period. who are your parents are with you for roughly 5K days if you count every minute you spent with them religiously without distractions. If you are someone who doesn't make much of a conversation then you can cut those days to around 4K days. you meet your friends and you might spend around 50 days with them if you count every second spent religiously. Similarly, you might spend another 1K days with your relatives. The rest of your life you are fighting for your living and you are doing that to carry the rest of the things which is part of your life. At this point you choose the situation and people who you think are right to spend time with. Everything you are doing is which makes you feel good. You should realize this and have a clear picture of what to do with life and where to put others expectations. If you remember an anecdote of a child in the class; who wiped 10 peoples name on the board in the order of their importance in its life then you will remember what is important at the end of the day. So stop pleasing people who do not try to understand your decision and the way of life you want to lead. Everything is an arrangement in this world. You met your spouse and it is an arrangement for you which is made to live certain situations and to realize the reason why you were put to such situation. You were born as someone and you realize you should go in a certain path, that situation gets created for you and it is an arrangement made for you to live the reason for which you were born. Understanding your worth and the reason makes your life a complete bliss. This makes you a human more than a living being. You are responsible for your own happiness and bliss, nobody will invite you and say "Please come, I'll make you happy". They may just say please join us in our happiness. but they are not sure whether you will be happy. So, "YOU" are very important! which is in turn. "I" am very Important.

The Journey to be travelled alone.

We all are crazy about traveling and right from childhood we urge to go on picnics and enjoy. As we grow up we travel more seriously. It is the journey which remains as an experience and makes memories for life. Also with whom we are traveling adds to the beauty of it. There are some journeys which has to be made alone no matter what. This is where we are dealing with the serious issues of life. Sometimes we are confident that we don't need anybody and we can manage our lives and sometimes destiny says we will not have anybody to face this. Identifying the circumstances is where the key is hidden. If we sit back thinking that somebody will get the key for us, the key will be gone locking us forever. We should decide for ourselves and be the owner of our journey of life. Do not lock oneself and put the keys inside others pocket. This will yield us nothing but emptiness. If we have something to be done then let us do it right away. We are responsible for us. This is our journey of life. We are the sole traveler. Keep going positively. Cheers!

The taste of success

Taste is something which people react to without knowledge. Taste is something unknown to you while you are cooking. Also it is unique. For ex:  You are having two dosas in your plate which is made from the same dough. But, each dosa tastes different. You cannot repeat the taste unless you are doing something robotic with sheer calculation. But repeating the same work throughout your life also is too boring. You always encounter new things in life. So with the new challenges you cannot repeat the way of dealing it. Likewise, you taste your success differently each time. In order to have this taste of success you need to concentrate on each checkpoint. You cannot jump in a hurry towards the goal. While missing the minute checkpoints you are actually missing the needful ingredients for the taste of success. To emphasise, while reaching the success you might be ignoring the people who are important, who would cherish your success and who would enjoy your success wholeheartedly. But, in a hurry to reach the goal you would have missed those small moments which would keep them wrapped with you to enjoy your big day. So concentrate on your each day's effort along with the people who are part of it and enjoy the outcome. Your success would definitely taste delicious.

Love and Lust: Shades of Life

Love and Lust: A blunder at 18, An emotion after 23, An understanding after 30 and a filler after 40. why would one call it as a blunder at 18? well, to answer to it I would say it's an immature decision made in order to hold on to a person for your life with a fear of having none to love you for the rest of your life. You are actually playing around with the inner you, not with the physical you. If you want to grow to be an ethical person, then you should go ahead with all consciences.

An emotion after 23? Yes, you tend to know the values of life at this age. you know what other person feels about you. what he means to you in life. You learn to appreciate each other and accept the flaws. Both of you know what is it the next 10 years down the line. What place you hold in others life. So your act of both maturity and immaturity are saved in the same basket. 

An Understanding after 30? Who knows what is tomorrow? you both are living for each other, saving for each other, spending for each other, in an understanding of a promise made of an older you. I do not want to emphasize on kids part. That is an auto mode of your living. but, for the two of you, you know what life was and what life will be all about next. 

Filler after 40? Uh oh, I am not telling you are already old. I am telling you have done enough for each other till now. Now, you want to do it or not, you will tend to do it. Your love is now a fixed deposit with a lump-sum amount.You are assured of the remaining days of your life. All this might sound boring but when you look back your journey would be definitely beautiful. 

I am not writing this to make people read and follow. Instead I am just saying my views and also if you liked this post and you have already lost the time to correct things. You still have time from this second. Still you can make it a wonderful bliss. 

Make confidence as your mother

Confidence, a very positive word for humans. It consists of mind and body.  For most people mind is the boss and for some heart is (like me). But nothing can rule you once you make yourself confident enough to be the boss of your mind and heart. So who is this you? Your mind? Your heart? Body? No, "you" are a soul. You just have a body. Respect the soul which is inside the body. It will surely make the body you are wearing happy. Why are you so hard on your body ? Why do you drink something which is tasteless and also which is unhealthy? It is your own body be nice to it. Nurture it soulfully. It will have its long term returns. Learn the meaning of mind, body and soul. You definitely don't need any session to learn it. You don't need anyone to teach you what you should do with it. You are your own and you have the ability to learn on your own. Relax, realize and act accordingly. You will be the gift to someone's life. Shine bright and be a light to atleast a couple of people like your parents and your husband/wife your life will be worth living. 

Lonliness (inspired by sources)

Loneliness is blue like sadness.
It tastes like a sour lime with salt on it.
It smells like rotten food and causes madness.
For fun it likes to do nothing but bad things.
While almost everything makes it angry
Everything makes it sad,
But nothing makes it happy.

Loneliness is smaller than you and me,
But bigger than peoples' minds.
Happiness is its enemy,
But nothing can be its friend.
Loneliness keeps its happy feelings in a secret place.
Its favorite place is in peoples' minds.
But it hates to be anywhere else.
Making people feel bad is its greatest success.
Not cheering people up it is greatest failure.
Loneliness makes me feel as sad as a deserted island.

Come back soon

i know you are feeling the pain of love lost

your pain makes me broken down

it is not love which is lost

it is the time which we lost

so lets make our life avoiding the time past..