Monday, November 17, 2014

Love and Lust: Shades of Life

Love and Lust: A blunder at 18, An emotion after 23, An understanding after 30 and a filler after 40. why would one call it as a blunder at 18? well, to answer to it I would say it's an immature decision made in order to hold on to a person for your life with a fear of having none to love you for the rest of your life. You are actually playing around with the inner you, not with the physical you. If you want to grow to be an ethical person, then you should go ahead with all consciences.
An emotion after 23? Yes, you tend to know the values of life at this age. you know what other person feels about you. what he means to you in life. You learn to appreciate each other and accept the flaws. Both of you know what is it the next 10 years down the line. What place you hold in others life. So your act of both maturity and immaturity are saved in the same basket. 
An Understanding after 30? Who knows what is tomorrow? you both are living for each other, saving for each other, spending for each other, in an understanding of a promise made of an older you. I do not want to emphasize on kids part. That is an auto mode of your living. but, for the two of you, you know what life was and what life will be all about next. 
Filler after 40? Uh oh, I am not telling you are already old. I am telling you have done enough for each other till now. Now, you want to do it or not, you will tend to do it. Your love is now a fixed deposit with a lump-sum amount.You are assured of the remaining days of your life. All this might sound boring but when you look back your journey would be definitely beautiful. 
I am not writing this to make people read and follow. Instead I am just saying my views and also if you liked this post and you have already lost the time to correct things. You still have time from this second. Still you can make it a wonderful bliss. 


  1. interesting write ups you got...
    to me now it sounds like a taboo when you attach different stages of shades to it

    1. Thanks for the feedback.
      A Taboo? No I'm not restricting the ideology. It's all about perception. People can spread love unconditionally and beyond boundaries